Sunday, 20 January 2013

Where the hell have you been??


Hi Darlings, long time no speak.


I can't believe almost a month has passed since my last post. In blogging terms it feels like it was only a week ago or so, but in reality the past month has been the longest of my life. My days have been long and my nights have been incredibly short through lack of sleep, which leads to a day which seems to last for three. 

The reason why I've been away, is because I have now entered a new phase in my life. It's not something that I take pleasure in writing, but I should let you know that over Christmas my relationship failed, and although Alex and I are still very close, we are no longer together. We have had a wonderful two years together and I don't regret a thing, she is and always will be one of my best friends. 

With this in mind, it's probably not surprising to you that I disappeared for a little while. Hearts need time to mend and although mine is quite a way off, it's starting to piece itself back together slowly.

Other than that news, I don't really have much to report. I've been working incredibly hard for my degree in the past month, but my time has also been filled with the practicalities that arise when you live with someone you are no longer with. I've also been with my closest friend Luce almost constantly since the beginning of January, she has been my rock and I couldn't have got through this without her. It's times like this that people really come through for you, and I'm eternally grateful. 

Normal blogging will resume as of now, although forgive me if there's the odd day when I'm not around. I'm just not quite out of the woods yet. 

I hope you're all safe and warm and the snow is causing you nothing but laughter and happiness <3

Lea
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39 comments:

  1. I'm sorry to hear, I totally understand I went through the same thing last year. But you have a great attitude and you sound optimistic! :) x

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    1. Thanks for your kind words hun. I'm sure that in time I'll be absolutely fine <3 x

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  2. Genuinely saddened to hear that. I can imagine it must be 10x more difficult for the both of you since you live together. It's good that you guys have managed to stay friends, perhaps you may be able to work things out at some point. Sometimes a break can do the world of good. Whatever happens though I hope you're both doing alright. Copious amounts of chocolate are great for mending a broken heart. Keep your chin up lovely. It will all be alright in the end, if it's not alright then it's not the end.

    Kisses

    Lola xx

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    1. Ohhh I'm there with the you on the junk food. Although my drug of choice is Luce's baking. I'm turning into Augustus Gloop! x

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  3. I'm sorry to hear that, It must be difficult but it's great you've stayed friends. It's lovely to see you blogging again and I hope your as okay as you can be now lovely :)
    Rosalie x

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    1. Thankyou so much, I'm feeling a bit better now, and a little more optimistic. I know it'll work out in the end x

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  4. Such a lovely blog, I am following now you my dear
    http://loving-evelyn.blogspot.ro

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  5. Great post!
    Would you like to follow each other? Come follow me and I’ll follow back for sure!
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    https://www.facebook.com/Fashionbyelena

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    1. If you're not going to read the post, please don't leave comments like this. I don't feel that this was what is called a 'great post', it was something that meant something to me and was hard to write. You blatantly aren't interested in the material that people are posting, this is a community where you should get involved, it's not the place for selfish motives.

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    2. Seriously how disrespectful can you be! Chin up Lea xxx

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  6. I'm so sorry to hear about your break up. Hope you are ok! Glad you have both been able to remain friends but it must be hard still living together. Hugs xx

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    1. Thanks hun, yeah it's difficult, but it'll get better in time (I hope!) <3 x

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  7. Sorry to hear about your break up, it is nice to know that you can still be friends. I hope you have a great year and looking foward to more posts from you!
    LaceyLoves x

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    1. I have a feeling that 2013 is going to be the best yet :) Thankyou so much! x

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  8. sory to hear you have broken up.. I broke up with my ex and had been together for 5 yrs and lived together...it can be really hard but once you have totaly moved out and got your own place again you can rebuild your life and start a new chapter... although it will be hard and you probably wont agree with me NOW but it's kind of exciting as you can start a a whole new adventure and rediscover who you are xx (always look for the positive as otherwise believe me you will never get through it lol!!!)

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    1. I do agree, I'm really pushing at the moment to get involved in things that I let slip because I had to prioritise another person. It's so much fun and I'm really regretting the fact that I gave so much up. I'm also exploring avenues that I never thought I would, but it's all good fun, so why not? :) Thankyou for your kind words <3 x

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  9. Aw I'm so sorry to hear that. But it's great that you can still be friends! Looking forward to seeing you back on the blogging seen! Best of luck Hun!

    P.s, you've been a big miss! Xx

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    1. That means such a lot to me, thanks lovely <3 x

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  10. sorry to hear about your break up. :( At least you are still both on good terms.
    Glad your back blogging, I have missed reading your posts. Hopefully writing will take your mind off things a little.
    Big hugs. xx

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    1. That means such a lot, thanks hun <3 I agree, writing is definitely something I've missed and I'm ready to get back into the swing of things x

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  11. Oh honey, I'm so sorry... But I'm glad you're back on your feet. Life is akward... you never know what it brings to you...There's a love of your life out there, you just have to look hard enough :)

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    1. You're right, and I know I'll find them someday :) Thankyou for such an optimistic comment :) x

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  12. New to your blog, and been waiting for you to post! Really sad news about your relationship. It takes time to heal. I have only just come to terms with my ex, and that was a year and a half ago. You can always learn from your past and let it make you a stronger and better individual.

    Mel x
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    1. Thanks for your patience with me :)
      You're right. I don't regret a thing but I can honestly say that I'm sure this will make me stronger. <3 x

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    1. Don't comment on a blog for the sake of getting followers, without even glancing at the content. You blatantly haven't read this post, it's something that means a great deal to me, and you have nothing but purely selfish motives. A standard blanket message that you can copy and paste is so dis-ingenuine, you won't be getting a follow back from me.

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  14. I'm sorry to hear about you and Alex. I'm glad you're back to blogging though! You've been missed
    <3
    katsfashionfix.blogspot.com

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    1. That means so much to hear that <3 I've missed blogging too. Thankyou for your kind words :) x

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  15. It has been odd not seeing you on my blog news feed!! I miss seeing what you're upto!!


    <3 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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    1. Sorry hun, I'm back kicking around now though! xxxxxxx

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  16. Sorry to hear about you and Alex, I hope you feel better soon :) xxx

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    1. I'm starting to feel better about things now hun, thankyou so much <3 xx

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  17. Lea I'm so sorry to hear this! I did wonder where you had been sweetheart it's time for a bit of you time you need time to heal darling... Take care of you for now xoxoxox

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    1. Thankyou <3 That means so much because I knew you of all people would be wondering where I'd disappeared to. Things are looking up now though :) xx

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    2. I can't speak on behalf of everyone but I'm sure we all feel the same and will support you through this difficult time darling.... Know where I am if you wanna chat Hun xoxoxoxoxox

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  18. Your blog is so lovely and honest and has really struck a cord with me! Sorry to hear about this, its never nice when breakups happen! Reletionships are difficult! Get some rom coms on the go and it'll perk you up beaut! xx

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  19. oh my gosh...meant to say chick flicks....not rom coms! eee sorry! xxxx

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    1. Hehe it's okay, I gathered what you meant hun. Thankyou for your lovely comment, I'll keep my chin up <3 x

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